Over the past few weeks I have been thinking over things that might be helpful for future brides as their wedding day draws closer. As I was thinking it over, I thought what better way to get some insight into your wedding then ask someone who has already had their own. So that’s what I did. I interviewed 12 brides who’s weddings I have done over the past 7 years and asked them three questions.
1. What was your favorite part about your wedding day?
2. If you could go back to the wedding day and change one thing what would it be?
3. If you could go back to the planning process and do it over what would you change?
This first post has the answers from the first question. I was going to put all the answers but it was getting really long. So I will post the rest of the answers in another post sometime this weekend. If you have your own story PLEASE leave it in the comments as I’m sure it will be helpful for other future brides.
|Melanie: My favorite part of the day was seeing Robert, the groom for the first time and seeing him as I walked down the aisle. I also loved our reception. So many of our friends and family got on the dance floor and our band was amazing. It was a fun, relaxing and joyous way to celebrate our special day.|
|Tara: So many moments were special on my wedding day, but I think one of my favorite things was actually our receiving line. Though it took about an hour to an hour and a half of our day, it was a chance for Mark and I to see every single guest, to give them a hug and to thank them for their support of us. Having our parents in the receiving line as well allowed for lots of introductions to be made that might not necessarily have happened otherwise. So when I look back, that is one of my most cherished memories of the whole day!|
|0||Julia: I was really excited to see Ben after a long day preparing, but we were still both a little tense and thinking about details during our private moment. So I think it was more exciting to be with him during the ceremony after everything started rolling. There were so many special emotions from walking down the aisle and finally getting to be by his side and hold his hand, to singing with his parents, and finally the kiss! So the ceremony and just afterwards when we were on a total high feeling now that we were finally married were the most exciting for me.|
|Jeanette: The favorite part of my day would probably have to be hearing the speeches from our maid of honor and best man. My husband and I had so many mutual friends who were there for us throughout our entire relationship from conception to fulfillment. It was fun and sweet to hear our good friends recount how our relationship has positively influenced their lives and how we as a couple became so knit together with these dear friends.|
|Dana: The best part of my wedding day was the fact that I married my best friend. Sure I could say that my other favorite part of day was getting all gussied up and wearing a gorgeous dress, which is true. But looking back on it, purely and simply I am just so happy that I got married!|
|Deidre: I have to say I think our wedding was perfect! It’s difficult for me to choose one particular part that was my favorite. It was special that Jesse and I could see one another for the first time alone in the gazebo.|
|Jacky: My favorite part about our wedding was that everything from the photos and music to decor and location was such a reflection of our personalities. It was important to us to have a day that we could look back on and say that it uniquely represented us. We wanted it to be a fun day for us and our guests as well. Also, it rained after the wedding and we were able to get some great pictures.|
|Elizabeth: Although my wedding had so many memories I will never forget my favorite part which was seeing my husband before the ceremony for our pre-ceremony pictures. We had debated over whether or not we should see each other before the ceremony, and ended up deciding that the photos would make it worth it. It was indeed true! We decided to do a “first-moment” photo, and to exchange a special gift. Some of the pre-wedding photos of us as a couple are my favorite photos of the day. It also allowed me a chance to relax with my husband before the big moment, and took some edge off of the day. Seeing him and spending some time with him helped me to stay calm and enjoy those first moments seeing each other dressed up.|
|Kat: My favorite part of my wedding day was exchanging vows. I did not know how much it would affect me, but standing at the altar at that moment, the entire world disappeared and I was able to really take in every word that I said and that was said to me in return.|
|Terah: I loved my wedding day, for many reasons! From the people, to the food, to the fun of finally wearing my wedding dress, to walking away from the huge clean-up job knowing that was one thing I didn’t have to be a part of, to spending almost the entire day standing next to the man I love. But, one thing that I enjoyed about the day in it’s entirety was just being the Bride. As we planned our wedding day I knew that it was going to go by so quickly, and I wanted to be able to enjoy it. I had a few key people who took on great responsibility so that on our special day I could just sit back and be the Bride. I slept long and well the night before, I fully trusted those who had responsibilities, I determined not to worry about the little things that would inevitably go differently than I had hoped; and thus I simply went where I was told, held my (now) husband’s hand, laughed with the wonderful friends who made up our Bridal Party and enjoyed every moment! Because of that I think my memories and our photos of that day are beautiful, I don’t remember being stressed, tired or in a hurry. And our wedding photos reflect that!|
|Becky: The whole day was great, but I especially liked our ceremony. Ryan and I worked really hard to make sure that part was special and unique for us. Instead of asking our head pastor to do the ceremony, we asked the youth pastor who knew us much better. Ours was his second wedding, so everything he said was written especially for us. We invited all of our guests to participate in communion with us as our best friends played our favorite worship music, and we ended with a Puritan Wedding Prayer. My favorite part was saying the vows we wrote. It was amazing to think that as these words were spoken, I was becoming life-long partners with the man I loved. That’s what the day should be about.|
|Michelle: Although the whole day was amazing, so much of it I cannot clearly remember and it is now a blur. I do remember the joy and relief of hopping into out getaway car and being driven away from our friends and family. So much was behind us, and the future stretched out before us. We were FINALLY married and it felt great! It was a wonderful feeling and time in our lives with so much to look forward to!|